1 hour ago, swiftcoder said:

One survived for a year by typing up step-by-step instructions for every task they had to perform

This could maybe help. I remembered when I first started summarizing what I planed on doing on paper allowed me to think more about what it was I that I had to do and how. Maybe if I got him to write things he should do down he would understand better.

17 minutes ago, grumpyOldDude said:

I mean they are smart enough to recognise your skills and qualification, give you the lead for the team

When they originally hired me things where going very well for them, they where expanding. Now things are falling apart as more and more investors withdraw.

I think that things behind the scenes are very bad, there is even rumors that the few people had to go see a psychiatrist before they where laid-off.

The way things feel here is like they are closing down and they only intent to provide people with work for as long as they can.

1 hour ago, swiftcoder said:

your best move may be to seek new employment...

Yes, this is also what I am thinking. As things are I don't know if working here is worth it anymore, yet at the same time I don't want to look as if I am abandoning ship.

If I stay on till the end and do a good job I could maybe earn a good reference.

45 minutes ago, Scouting Ninja said:

I think that things behind the scenes are very bad, there is even rumors that the few people had to go see a psychiatrist before they where laid-off.

Sweet Jesus, get out of there while you still can!

See if you can get moved to a different team.  If that fails, look for a job outside the company NOW, not when it finally collapses.  As for references, surely there are some people there who are not against you.  Obviously you should only have people who like your work as references.  If there isn't anyone who will vouch for you now then I doubt there will be any later on.

As for the stubborn guy, just abandon him.  You can probably contribute more to the team by doing your own work in the amount of time you spend trying to teach him.  He's only going to drown you if you try to help him swim.

Also, you mentioned your team is "among the lowest scoring".  How are teams scored?

14 hours ago, Nypyren said:

Also, you mentioned your team is "among the lowest scoring".  How are teams scored?

Don't know the exact details of this. However meeting our deadlines seems to be a large factor and my team is normally a day or three behind.

It's the kind of thing that once you lag behind it's difficult to catch up. 

14 hours ago, Nypyren said:

If there isn't anyone who will vouch for you now then I doubt there will be any later on.

The thing is no one actually hates me or anything. My team was a bit late and a few times we had to stay at work longer hours to get things done. More than once I did work for my team members and I even helped some of the environment artist that isn't even on my team. This whole time I thought I was doing well.

The feeling I get is that everyone decided because people had to be laid-off then it would be better that it was me to go, instead of someone who would have a hard time getting a new job.

The unfair part of this is that no matter how skilled you are it doesn't guarantee work. Not to mention this is a bad time of the year, I could end up job hunting till the start of next year.

6 hours ago, Bregma said:

If you're old as 27 you've probably already been through a couple of layoffs so you should know the drill.

This is my second long term job and at the last I was fired because I had a fallout with the lead designer. Admittingly I might have a anger management problem, although it only shows when I am under stress.

The rest of my portfolio consist of short term contracts and Freelance work. The good thing is that as an artist I can show people my skills instead of only depending on references.

I made lot of mistakes when I was younger and had to build my reputation the hard way. This being my second long term job is kind of why I don't want to quit just yet. Things were going well for me and then suddenly I was told that there is a very high chance of me loosing my job.

I think that tomorrow I will just talk to my supervisor, tell him that I am thinking of resigning and hear what he has to say on that.

At least I should be able to get some free time to work on my own projects while I job hunt.

14 hours ago, Nypyren said:

As for the stubborn guy, just abandon him.

That is what I am thinking. If he comes to me asking to help him I will but I won't go out of my way to get him to do his work.

On 20/08/2017 at 2:55 AM, TheChubu said:

So let me get this straight:

You're a team lead. They give to you a 56 year old to work with, that doesn't does anything that you tell him to, and that fucking follows YouTubers to do shit.

You complain to the manager, and he tells you that between you and him they'd pick him?

For good reasons or not, these people don't like you nor want you. Anyone would expect this kind of thing happening in such situation, and that they're stacking it against you is telling.

Agree. Maybe tell management that he's been trying to touch you inappropriately. Get creative.

Also that idea about cutting losses and take him off active work, maybe have him build a 3d snowman, and when it comes to review time, just say he wouldn't do any work and just spent his time making snowmen etc.

However other than blaming external things, maybe look at it as an opportunity for self-improvement. A large part of being responsible for other people, is getting on with them, massaging their egos, psychology, praising them etc, and making them as useful as you can, as you may not be able to hire / fire based on your personal preferences. The best outcome to me would be if you could identify something the guy was (or had potential) to be good at, and get them to concentrate on that particular thing to take work off of others, get some kind of self worth and be productive to the team instead of a drain. Have you thought about asking his advice for the team etc? Tell him you'd appreciate his input because of his greater experience. It is very likely he resents having a boss half his age.

Is there any chance you could find out why he is being this way? If not through him then through his friends / coworkers (if he has any)? Is he annoyed at you, or the company, feeling undervalued, something going on in his personal life or what? 

Finally I'm glad you've recognised your own anger management issues - this can potentially be a massive problem in your role. It can even create exactly this type of situation, where people don't want to work with you, even people you think are 'on your side', (although I'm not suggesting it is responsible in this situation, there could be countless other reasons why he might not be being cooperative).

22 hours ago, Scouting Ninja said:

Don't know the exact details of this. However meeting our deadlines seems to be a large factor and my team is normally a day or three behind.

OK, for deadlines the things you have control over that are independent of your team's development rate:

- Costing (your estimate of time required for feature(s) that you provide to the person defining your deadline).  Use a +20% or +40% (or whatever) adjustable over-estimate that you determine based on how far over/under the past few deadlines.  However, try to avoid letting your teammates slack because they feel like there's no pressure.  If you keep your team performance approximately constant you should be able to find the appropriate costing overestimate threshold fairly quickly.  If someone else is making deadlines for you without asking you for estimates, then you should discuss this with them.

- Estimate your return-on-investment (how awesome is a feature vs. how much of a risk/burden/etc it is to implement and maintain) and discuss eliminating features which are too risky for very little benefit.  In some cases you might also identify a few key changes which could dramatically simplify the task.

There is another possibility, which hopefully isn't the case, but you should know about it when you see it.

Some companies will bundle up a bunch of workers they want to get rid of into a failing project, or into a project they intend to allow to fail for a time. The bad project will give reasons for poor performance reviews.  For example, a project will be under-staffed and over-scoped, but everyone will get a bad review for not meeting goals, not being team players, not contributing to the project. Or they'll be placed with people known to cause personality conflicts so they can add employee reviews about conflicts. In your case you were given someone to train, but then given what you described as a difficult or potentially impossible task.  You were told the entire team is at the bottom of the barrel.  That sounds typical of the situation.

It may not be the case, but it is possible the company is just setting up the entire team with plausible reasons for layoffs, just in case any of the layoffs come back to bite them through legal investigations.

You said you already started hunting for a job, but given the further descriptions I'd make that effort a priority.  The line "I have also been warned that our team is among the lowest scoring" tells me someone is watching out for you.  Most companies fire first then use that kind of thing as justification.  It seems someone is trying to tell you: "I'm forbidden from telling you that you're about to be laid off, but I can strongly hint you're in the next layoff round."